Porn Trouble

My boyfriend has a “thing” for porn cams. When I confronted him about it, he admitted to it but wasn’t honest about how often. I just don’t get it! What’s the allure to pay to watch a girl on a screen? Anupama, New Delhi

 

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Men are hormone-driven, and what we won’t do one minute, we will do a few minutes later, simply because there’s a naked woman involved. Even if she’s on the computer. If his porn habit is a substitute for sex with you, then it’s a problem. Or if it interferes with anything that he should be doing—work, chores, etc. If he’s watching it on an occasional basis, it’s not a big deal. Most guys like porn... as do girls. If you’re having other problems, they might be related. If he is generally inconsiderate, confront him.