Blowing It Up

I’ve been married 18 years but sex seems to be something my wife does only when she’s in the mood. Is asking for a blowjob asking for too much? Pankaj, Chennai


Maybe it’s your attitude that needs a tweak. However, to solve your situation, we think what you should learn is that everything depends on a woman’s mood. Make sure she’s in a happy and erotic mood when you start making out next time. While you’re at it, a passive prompting would be when you go down on her, swing yourself around to a 69 position. Having your thing in her face might give her the idea too!